Just so coincidence that person trigger that bad emotion & i flared.
I believed everyone will have that stage in life, by becoming possessive over bf & his everything. BUT never beyond that invisible line as everyone deserve and need respect.
I used to be like her, wanted to check this check that, suspect this suspect that. But i’m much more sensible & matured compared to her. AHEM. Guys just need some freedom as we do. Just don get blinded by love, you are not in “going steady” stage at this age but more into dating stage & in future, life time partner. If you are just sweet 16, awesome 18? Well just go ahead with your “STEAD”, more like a past-time partner. Phew.
We are friends for a decade, listen to us will never be wrong and if you continue to dwell in her childishness & yr “so-called love”, u’ll never go far & will get hurt that one particular day. Hope you can wake up your senses & make the right choice, my good friend.
1st, if you want to read or check his phone. U do it in your way without letting his friends know. If not his friends will start to look down on him! No dignity, no respect. It doesnt look good on u too! U don gain anything by telling ppl that u have the access to it. Why attract those kind of attention?
2nd, even worse! u used his phone & reply his friend’s msg. This is so rude & disrespectful . I seriously doubt your up-bringing & EQ. Why do u have to reply his friend’s msg? & whats gonna do with you?
I think everyone shld practice basic courtesy & respect. No matter is boyf or husband. You have doubt, u ask. But do not use his phone & msg other ppl. Seriously, it aint look good at all!
Wanted to post something about work BUT shall share it in the next post instead! too tired for anything now! Just need a rest & move on! phew. Good9 earthlings! :>