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高僧和女人发生关系后,竟然..

镇上有一个少女,有了身孕,父母逼问少女,孩子的父亲是谁。少女被逼无奈,说孩子父亲是附近庙里的一位高僧,孩子出世后,这家人抱着孩子找到了高僧。

高僧只说了一句“ 这样子啊!”便默默地接下孩子。此后,高僧每天抱着孩子挨家挨户讨奶喝。小镇里炸开了锅,说什么的都有。高僧被人指指点点,甚至辱骂。

一年后,少女受不住内心的煎熬,承认孩子的父亲是另一个人,与高僧无关。 少女及家人惭愧地找到高僧,看到高僧很憔悴,但孩子白白胖胖。 少女满心愧疚。 高僧淡淡地回了一句“ 是这样子啊!”便把小孩还给了少女。

高僧被冤枉名声扫地,却始终不辩解,为什么呢? 高僧说:“出家人视功名利禄为身外之物。被人误解于我毫无关系。我能解少女之困,能拯救一个小生命就是善事。当我们被误解时,会花很多的时间去辩白。但没有用。没人会听,没人愿意听。人们按自己的所闻、理解做出判别,每个人其实都很固执。他若理解你,一开始就会理解你,从始至终的理解你,而不是听你一次辩白而理解,与其努力而痛苦的试图扭转别人的判别, 不如默默承受,给别人多一点时间和空间。省下辩解的功夫,去实现自身更久远的人生价值。渡人如渡己。 渡已,亦是渡人

看不开,就背着。
放不下,就记着。
舍不得,就留着。
等有一天…
背不动了,就看开了!
记不清了,就放下了!
留不住了,就舍得了!

所以说有些事情不要太计较,睁一只眼,闭一只眼,就会过去的。珍惜眼前的人,做好眼前的事。一切都是美好的!

阴天,不一定会下雨。
分手,不一定最伤心。
憎恨,不一定会一辈子。
失望,不一定是绝望。
面对,不一定最难过。
孤独,不一定不快乐。
拥有,不一定要厮守。
沉默,不一定是冷漠。
失去,不一定不再拥有。
失败,不一定会放弃。
奇迹,不一定不出现。

凡事都要靠自己:

1.遇到爱你的人,学会感恩;
遇到你爱的人,学会付出。

2.遇到你恨的人,学会原谅;
遇到恨你的人,学会道歉。

3.遇到欣赏你的人,学会感激;
遇到你欣赏的人,学会赞美。

4.遇到嫉妒你的人,学会低调;
遇到你嫉妒的人,学会转化。

5.遇到不懂你的人,学会沟通;
遇到你不懂的人,学会请教。

有个懂你的人,是最大的幸福。这个人,不一定十全十美,但他能读懂你,能走进你的心灵深处,能看懂你心里的一切。最懂你的人,总是会一直的在你身边,默默守护你,不让你受一点点的委屈。真正爱你的人不会说许多爱你的话,却会做许多爱你的事。

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2018 January

Started 2018 great and awesome. The husband always give me the best on my birthday. I appreciate everything you have done for me ❤

Trip to Khaoyai- The little girl was so easy contented. She was helping us to find parking and cs pay her 100baht for the blessing flower and the rest was tip. Guess that the flower cost ard 10-20baht only. The little girl jumped in joy knowing that the rest of the money belongs to her. Me and cs were glad seeing her so happy. Sometimes the most simple thing sum up to be the happiest of all.

2018 gonna be busy and fulfilling year. I believe hard work definitely pays off. Try it or leave it 🙂 Well, i give it a try before giving up. ‘加油!

16/12/17 a day to rmb

Thank you for making today a better day with all the love, laughter.. and noise 🙂 Appreciate all the good time spend just like during secondary school. Thank you heaven for sending me a bunch of good sisters that can talk all day night with me. I really really appreciate the extra miles each and every of you can go for me (The Most effort-shin, that pay $1.50 more for erp & during the rain just to get the crown and slash for me lol)

我小时候 说我要 4卡拉的戒指才可以结婚,老公要非常有钱 Lol. I think its all bullshit now haha cos what i have now is more than just a dream. Thank you heaven for sending me a good husband that take good care of me, the house and family. Love all of you.

# 2017 年

Ufm topic 2017 年 对我来说。 。。 是屎。 哈哈。发了简讯 给电台 感觉良好。坦荡面对很多不开心不愉快·的事情·。 2018 要考试吗? 要到六月才可以考试 感觉大半年已过。 烦恼有 Options, 也烦恼 没有 options。 可悲哈哈。

烦恼啊。

# Treat or Tricks

Happy Halloween! Coming to an end of October. I can’t wait for a better 2018 to come. 👆 Everyday we never fail to disturb each other. I think CBS had enough of CS shifting her around. See her 不耐烦 face.

Feeling quite tired after bodypump today. hopefully i can slp well tonight (Mind off work)

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After reading the news, I’m really in a serious mode in planning whats next and how to prepare the in-coming storm. I don’t like prepare last minute as it concerns my rice bowl. Insurance business still doable but i doubt bbc can still continue doing. Basically, it’s like the whole village snatching a piece of pie. The pie is getting small and smaller. Staying put doesn’t help much. I like what I am doing but it is not enough.

Whats up for plan B?